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Breaking Free from "All or Nothing" Fitness Mindset

Shannon Turek • February 13, 2025

Breaking down the mental barriers that hold us back from fitness success.

As a fitness coach, I've noticed a common thread that often holds people back from achieving their wellness goals: the all-or-nothing mindset. I've struggled with this myself, particularly when it comes to nutrition. That voice that says "If I can't follow this plan perfectly, why even try?"


Let's talk about why this mindset is so destructive and how we can overcome it.

Why the All-or-Nothing Mindset Sabotages Us

  • It creates unrealistic expectations of perfection
  • It leads to giving up entirely after small setbacks
  • It prevents us from celebrating small victories
  • It makes us view fitness as either "on track" or "off track" with no middle ground

The Reality of Sustainable Progress

Here's the truth: fitness and nutrition aren't all-or-nothing endeavors. They exist on a spectrum, and every small positive choice moves us forward. Think about it this way: if you had a flat tire on the side of the road,  would you then slash the other 3 tires, rendering the car useless? Of course not! So why do we treat our wellness journey this way?

Practical Steps to Break Free

  • Start viewing progress as a spectrum rather than binary success or failure
  • Celebrate small wins - even a 10-minute workout is better than no workout
  • Focus on consistency over perfection - my favorite Fr. Mike Schmitz saying: "consistency over intensity EVERY time!"
  • Practice the "something is better than nothing" approach

Reframing Your Mindset

Instead of thinking:

"I missed my morning workout, so this whole week is ruined."
"I ate crappy last night, so might as well eat crappy all weekend"

Try thinking:

"I missed my morning workout, but I can take a 15-minute walk at lunch."
"I ate crappy last night, but can start fueling my body properly this morning!"

The Power of Small Choices

Every day presents dozens of opportunities to make choices that benefit your health. Maybe you:

  • Take the stairs instead of the elevator
  • Choose water instead of soda for one meal
  • Do five minutes of stretching while watching TV
  • Add an extra serving of vegetables to your dinner
  • Do a 10 minute workout or walk

Building Sustainable Habits

The key to long-term success isn't perfection - it's consistency. Start with small, manageable changes that you can maintain. As these become habits, gradually add more positive changes. This approach might feel slow, but it leads to lasting results.

Moving Forward

Remember, your fitness journey is exactly that - a journey. There will be ups and downs, perfect days and imperfect ones. The goal isn't to be perfect; it's to be better than yesterday, even if just by 1%.

Next time you catch yourself in the all-or-nothing mindset, pause and ask: "What small step can I take right now that moves me in the right direction?" Because sometimes, the smallest steps lead to the biggest changes.


Are you ready to take the next step & ditch the "all or nothing" mindset? Check out SWS's Signature Package - it is increasing in popularity because of its value AND because it is designed for your busy life!

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